Human psychologists have done a lot of research on the area of attraction, and they believe that women are most attracted to these six things:
1) Means (wealth, possessions, gifts to them or providing for them)
2) Power (influence, leadership, provide safety)
3) Fame
4) Looks (including height, dark complexion, hairy chest, sharp features)
5) Exclusivity (royalty, already married, hard to get, affiliation)
6) Personality (honesty, integrity, humour, creativity, romance, intelligence, maturity, communication skills, understanding, empathy, mystique, kindness, chivalry and etc.)
Now, numbers one through five are largely out of your immediate control. If you're not rich, you're probably not going to become a millionaire overnight. If you're not famous or tall, you're probably not going to be in a hit movie or grow 15 cm in the next 24 hours. If you weren't born a Tengku Mahkota or Raja Muda, you're not likely to be coronated one next week.
So that leaves us with number six, personality.
The good news is that as far as I'm concerned, your personality is your greatest asset in the success-with-women game.
Fortunately, it's the one thing you can change. And it's the one thing that can overcome all of the rest. After you've done what you can to look your best, etc. you have to develop a personality that's absolutely charismatic.
The one quality that attracts women the most (and keeps them attracted) is not something that they can initially 'look' for. It's the way they feel when they are with you or even just thinking of you. In the end, if you don't have wealth, power, fame, or looks you're going to have to use your personality to make them feel good. In the final analysis, your personality is the most powerful asset you have...
Women are not attracted to what you say to them, they're attracted to how you make them feel.
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