Saturday, May 22, 2004

A Short Note to Ex-boyfriends

A Short Note to Ex-boyfriends

Aquacool wrote, inter alia, on Friday, May 21, 2004:
"Dumping someone can be for so many reasons: lack of understanding, lack of respect, boredom, problems based on disagreement in principles, falling in love with someone else, violence and suffering, disloyalty, or in some cases which are based on financial interest: when the partner runs out of money :P ."

To which I would also like to add infidelity, quarrelling ~ this is a sure sign of you're both no longer enamoured with each other ~ and disinterest. Some couples bring out the worst in each other ~ swearing, foul language and sheer meanness. When this happens, it's best to just part company and move on.

The Malays have a saying ~ it takes two hands to clap.

We men often don't accept that we're history. We're kinda dumb that way.

Something to do with the way men's brains are hard-wired. Being repeatedly told NOT to bug, hassle, call, sms, e-mail, stalk, and etc. the lady who's no longer romantically interested in you all don't work. Some men even resort to leaving messages via mutual friends, turning up (uninvited, perhaps?) at parties, tahlil functions and even at her office. Some pay the lady's mother a visit to garner sympathy votes; not to mention calling and leaving voice-mail at 1.30 am.

The only thing that does is a new gf. If you can't manage that, get a life!


Also, read about Sarah's Stalker

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